More Reasons for Physical Separation
There are many important reasons why many twin flames / soul mates go through physical separation from each other. This is something that is driven primarily by the soul and not necessarily the individual. Even though it may appear that one or perhaps both twin flames / soul mates are denying/pushing away/running from the connection because they don’t care, really it is because the person has issues to work through that this soul connection is supposed to highlight to them.
But this physical separation occurs primarily to "wake us up". All preconceptions about the connection will need to be looked at and if the twin flames / soul mates have any false ideas about what the connection "should be" and are not accepting it for what it really is, then they will need to continue on in separation until they are aware of the true reality of this soul connection.
Firstly we need to look past the ego that contains all the "shoulds" and expectations, the conditions. Mostly what we blame our twin flames / soul mates for, is really what we are blaming ourselves for on a subconscious level. There are parts of ourselves we may be rejecting, denying, scolding, punishing ourselves for. To try and ignore this pain, we put the focus on our twin flame / soul mate not giving us something which we believe would make us happy and complete us. But really we need to realise it is OURSELVES not giving us what we need for happiness and fulfilment – self-love and acceptance. Until we realise the problem will continue to manifest itself between the twin flames / soul mates as they mirror it back to each other, possibly over several lifetimes.
The physical separation also helps us to become aware of just how important, how significant this twin flame / soul mate connection really is. If we were to be together immediately with no problems then surely we would take it more for granted and be unaware of just how important, how significant the connection is. In being physically separated but feeling this pull and experiencing all the psychic, spiritual phenomena that occurs with twin flame / soul mate connections, we become aware that this is something MASSIVELY important. It helps us to look inwards to discover WHY it is so important and this also spurs us onto awakening.
I believe that soul connections are eternal. Even if in this lifetime things don’t work out how you may have wanted, be assured there was a great purpose to the meeting and recognition of each other. But even if it’s not in this lifetime, you will meet again and you will be able to have everything you want together.
Our physical separation helps us to realise and strengthen our connection to Source. Source resides within us, we are divine beings and having the space from our twin flames / soul mates to concentrate on our relationship with ourselves, with Source, helps us to come back to self-love and acceptance. This is what harmonises our energies with our twin flames / soul mates and creates twin flame / soul mate healing to bridge the gap between them for reunion to eventually occur.
As we work on our individual selves, the female aspect of ourselves learns to develop more independence (primarily masculine) and the masculine aspect develops expressing emotion in a constructive manner (primarily feminine). Please note that I am not talking about men and women, but masculine and feminine. Women can be masculine and men can be feminine. Therefore the twin flames / soul mates have the room to grow and develop both these aspects to bring them into balance and harmony. Please note, we all have free will, therefore a person can CHOOSE to either work on themselves or not, but that will result in further incarnations to get to the
root of the problem.
Think about what you are learning from this separation - what are the good things that have resulted from this? Have you grown more as an individual? Have you awakened more spiritually? Have you learnt more about yourself? Have you developed more of your intuition? What else?
This is all happening for a reason. It is nobody's "fault" but just the path of your souls to help you learn and
grow the most in preparation for reunion with self and your other soul mates.